I've been dating a guy for 3 months - huge love bomber - lots of red flags. Went to speak to my therapist and she says she thinks he's in another relationship from the way he's acting. He has started to pull away / give breadcrumbs. He left my message unopened for a couple of days and popped up this morning saying he's going to be busy now until weekend/next week. I have felt rejected, upset, but feel like I'm done now tolerating bullshit and his lack of genuineness.
Do I send him a message telling him I'm done and no longer interested, or do I just ignore him now and not respond and quietly disappear (like he does although he disappears and re-enters)?