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Should I ask this woman out?

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OneBluntShark · 22/07/2025 02:38

I recently got a good job that allowed me to move out. I’ve known a woman for 12 years but we lived way too far from each other to make it work. She refuses to do long-distance and I can see why (we would never even see each other in person).

that isn’t a problem anymore.

There’s only one issue, she usually likes experience and I’m admittedly inexperienced. I’ve only had sex once, it was very very lousy too. But, me and her have been friends for 12 years. I am wondering if the trust we have can make it work, I still have things to offer outside the bedroom. Should I still go for it?

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MuckFusk · 22/07/2025 03:12

Go for it. You can't be bad in bed if you ask her what she likes and then actually do what she wants in the way she likes it. That's all there is to it. So don't be too shy to ask.

TryingAgainAgainAgain · 22/07/2025 06:01

MuckFusk · 22/07/2025 03:12

Go for it. You can't be bad in bed if you ask her what she likes and then actually do what she wants in the way she likes it. That's all there is to it. So don't be too shy to ask.

This is the best advice you’ll get, @OneBluntShark. Interesting that you’ve ignored it.

Seaoftroubles · 22/07/2025 08:23

Of course give it a try, if you don't ask you won't know! Communicate and be guided by her, then you won't go far wrong. Good luck!

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