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Is he using drugs ?

6 replies

Jane370 · 18/07/2025 20:10

I've been with my partner for 8 years

The last few months I've noticed a shift in his behaviour and moods he's becoming increasingly verbally abusive and agitated all the time .

He starts arguments blocks me and disappears the next day he's always unwell tired with headache and blurry vision complaining he feels sick he began hanging out with a different group of friends who I know use cocaine .

He is always agitated and moody and starts fights for no reason and blames me I've been called every name under the sun including The c word S word and idiot he has begun to make physical threats to me including stepping to raise his hand to me while and told me it was because I was throwing my weight around .

It's making me miserable as I have no idea what's going be denies using anything but this behaviour is happening daily .

OP posts:
classiccake · 18/07/2025 20:20

Why bother finding out shit pack up and leave would be better.
If its your home pack his crap and sit it outside for him tell him to fuck the fuck off.
Leave him to his new mates dont get in his drama go live your life it will be a better one without him.

Stripeyanddotty · 18/07/2025 20:20

leave him.

Momstermash94 · 18/07/2025 20:23

The second he raised his hand to you should have packed up and left, from this point it's only a matter of time until he really hurts you. Please leave him OP, don't wait around to find out what he's capable of. If you have children, please get them and you to safety before it turns worse. I'm sorry OP xx

Sunflowers67 · 18/07/2025 20:31

I agree with all the above too.
There is little point in getting into the why's of his behaviour or trying to fix a problem with him.
He is a grown up and responsible for his own actions.
Leave.

Insomniapain · 18/07/2025 20:39

Everything you say points to him using drugs.

He is being abusive towards you verbally and he has raised his hand to you.

You really need to leave him OP asap because it will be sooner rather than later that he physically assaults you.

Lighteningstrikes · 18/07/2025 20:41

Yes sorry, I would bet my bottom dollar he’s using cocaine.
Leave him, or your life will become a horrible losing battle of misery.

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