Hey so I would like some advice. This is my first post on this app but I’m really struggling to be friends with a friend of mine. She is Just not a good person from what she’s been saying, and all my friends have said like she is awful and I agree. So basically the other night I told her if she has an abortion for the reason she’s having one then that’s wrong and she’s disgusting. Long story short. I’ve been trying to conceive for three years first round of Clomid didn’t work either. She’s just come off birth control to try for her 3rd So she’s very fertile so She will most likely be pregnant Before me and give birth before I’m even pregnant but basically, she turned around to me and answered my question because I said to her if you have a boy, are you gonna tell your mum and she said if I do the gender reveal test it comes back it’s a boy. The pregnancy won’t last long so there’s no point in telling her you already know what I’m gonna do if it’s a boy. She then proceeded to say hopefully, I get pregnant with a girl the first or second time because I don’t wanna have to keep getting rid of it as it’s not fair and then she said I have to wait six weeks for the gender reveal test and another week for results and if it’s not a girl, I have to wait another two weeks before I can conceive again. She then said, yeah, it’s not nice But when you want a girl, you have to do what you have to do, I then said to her you do realise they can’t legally do an abortion over gender so what are you gonna do? Just keep getting rid of boys that’s not right. She then said I didn’t know that, but they shouldn’t have to be a reason for abortion. They should just do it anyway no matter the reason. I am entitled to an abortion it’s my body. Doesn’t matter what the situation is if you wanna get rid of it then you can get rid of it so i turned to her and said i can see why they wouldn’t because that’s NOT a right reason to have an abortion it’s wrong and not normal at all but she ignored me, also I feel like she shoves it in my face that she’s fertile and that too, just struggling to be her friend she’s just so selfish mate