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At the my whits end

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Preachscreen · 12/07/2025 10:57

I'm at my whits end, my partner of many years has gone through some tough times lately and mental health hasn't been great but in the last year he has got worse with managing life. He does not listen, take on board my views on something I.e. building work then it always comes to a point something has been done wrong and I was right....giving preparing of not what to do etc. I'm fed up of it. I don't always want to be right but it feels this is the case. I can't trust him to complete anything, he dismisses my view and thinks his answer is correct until it goes wrong. Even when things go wrong he will lie or dismiss and not ackowledge it. He will also say he has done things or checked things and they are fine when they are not. He will forget things all the time. I'm having stress and palpitations from this, every weekend I end up stressed from his brain fog, lying etc he is not a big liar just constant small lies. It's draining. We will have a sentence and by the end of it the answer will have changed! I'm so upset. I love him to bits but this is not healthy. Even our children have noticed he doesn't listen or forgets.

OP posts:
Merciboc · 12/07/2025 10:59

Does he hold down a job op?

shame the children are around all this

Merciboc · 12/07/2025 11:02

Is the child shared or yours?

Preachscreen · 12/07/2025 15:21

Yes he does, no Idea how judging from home. It is a shame as up until this day they would not see this kind of behaviour.

OP posts:
Preachscreen · 12/07/2025 15:21

Both x

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Merciboc · 12/07/2025 15:22

You the child who’s around all this is his child?

it sounds bloody awful for you and the child

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