My ex turned out really abusive. He unbeknown to me was taking drugs with a set of people I didn't know about. When I thought he was home alone he had various people in his home from that walk of life. He started hearing and seeing things. I went down and called him an ambulance. He didn't tell the psychiatrist he saw 6 months later about the drugs or how he's manipulated people his whole life. I won't go into detail on here unless you ask but very broken family dynamics and he uses his nieve but very smart adult daughter. Nieve meaning she excuses his behaviours as he can't help it.
He came off with a dual diagnosis of EUPD and bipolar type 2. This was after one session. He didn't take his medication as prescribed and spiralled further. I walked away. He begged me for help 5 months ago. Life or potential harm situation. I directed him to the police and allowed him to do a statement in my house then encouraged him to go to his daughters an hour away.
He leant on me emotionally for a while asking me for food etc. I eventually got sickof him and asked the police to help me when he was hurling vile abuse at me.
He was put into temp housing an hour away. Police supported me. I've been through domestic abuse team. I've worked hard on myself. Joined the gym. I'm reading a book on narcisstic abuse. I in myself feel mostly OK. I am worried about him contacting me for a small bag of clothes and photos etc. I feel on edge because of this.
He's been given a offer of free housing in another town, he's also getting his pip reviewed next week as he feels he should get the top whack and the car thrown in. I am so angry and bitter that he's being so spoilt by the system because he chose to abuse women and do drugs. I'm the 3rd woman on his clares law.
He's also made a Facebook which I've now blocked. 3 women. Oneblo de and blue eyed 27. He's 52. Two Scottish women linked to his ex wife. One in a marriage. One is his daughters friends mum that he flirted with whilst we were together. Why am I so angry?