What should I do

[Chicos]

I am currently in a FWB situationship and recently the dynamics have changed, he's pulling away but then lovebombing. We have a standing Tuesday night arrangement as it suits us both however plans recently have been cancelled at the last minute or are never followed through on. I knew from the lack of communication that last night (Tues) was going to be cancelled even before it was. Woke up this morning to a sorry hope this makes it up too you post with a limp dick pic attached. I responded by saying 'seriously... A limp dick pic 🤯'. He has since responded sorry for trying and is now huffing. For context this a man in his 40's. What would you do in my situation?

If it’s not working for you anymore, stop doing it? FWB arrangements are by definition supposed to be beneficial. The floppy dick
pic would turn me right off.

Block him and get a good vibrator

Wow block and delete. You are wasting your own time here.

The whole point of a fwb is that it's fun and easy and drama free.

Unfortunately I've found most men who say they want one, can't do it because of their ego. What they actually want is to hold all the power. So they play stupid games.

This guy is doing that. He's not fwb material.

If tell him that. That being a friend with benefits requires very solid boundaries and mutual respect and clearly all he wants to do is waste your time so, agreement over, toodle pip.

Eww gross!

Would be an instant ick for me - as PP said, invest in something big and buzzing and sack him off.

Tried a fwb once and I got a guy who was lovely but wanted to know every week who I’d spoken to at work and when out at work functions…..both parties need to have confidence and self esteem. He sounds like he’s a game player.

Block.

What was he thinking sending that?

yourgenitalsarenotasattractiveasyouseemtothink

Cringe.

He sent you a photo of his limp dick? 😂 and 🤢

And that's supposed to make it better?

He's got some ego on him, hasn't he?

I just wouldn't respond anymore. Or just say I'm busy with any future meet ups.

No game playing. Just move on. Politely but firmly.

You deserve far better.

Thanks everyone for taking the time to reply. I know what I have to do