By his present wife!
He got remarried about two years ago, and she has accused him of rape, he is out on bail at the moment.
I am so shocked.
He was a bully, and very twisted.
He was psychologically and emotionally abusive towards me, and would humiliate me in public. That is why we split up. After the split he harrassed me for years.
I don't know if he is capable of rape though.
But no-one would falsely accuse someone of that would they?
My eldest(his son) is distraught. He told me about it, I have never spoken to him since the split, and since my ds1 is now grown up.
He expects me to be a type of character witness to say he never raped me, but I do not want to do this. My marriage with him ended over 13 years ago, surely he has had other women since who can testify for him, he always had plenty when he was married to me.
I bet he was a git to all of them, so no-one wants to come forward.
I fell odd, because what if he did rape her, I won't help him to get away with it.
Ds is grown up now, and can cope with it.
It might be different if ds was still a child.
What do you think, AIBU