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Advice - ONS

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BebeFitterLoco · 06/07/2025 19:34

I had a ONS over the weekend (please, no sexual shaming) and I would like to add him as a friend on Facebook. I'd like to see him again for sex or more. He's 26 and is 15 years younger than me. The sex was really good and I find myself attracted to him, he also seems like a lovely guy.
The only problem is that I notice he's facebook friends with an ex of mine (from year and half ago).

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Springadorable · 06/07/2025 19:37

Just add him if you want to. Most people his age don't use Facebook much anyway.

Batbrown · 06/07/2025 19:46

Just add him, no harm in trying. However, he might only have wanted a ONS. Although I doubt many 26 year old men or men in general would be saying no to sex.

Gymbunny2025 · 06/07/2025 19:51

You’d be better following his instagram I imagine?

SugaSugaS · 06/07/2025 19:58

The fact that you are asking this suggests he didn’t ask for your number? In that case I’d probably leave it as he doesn’t sound particularly interested even if it’s just for sex

BebeFitterLoco · 06/07/2025 20:13

SugaSugaS · 06/07/2025 19:58

The fact that you are asking this suggests he didn’t ask for your number? In that case I’d probably leave it as he doesn’t sound particularly interested even if it’s just for sex

He asked if I was going out the night after, I said yes I was meeting friends there (local). He said he was seeing mates there too and he would see me there or around soon. His mates were there, but he didnt go. I feel that that he was feeling a bit shy, perhaps he feels I'm out of his league.

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AvidJadeShaker · 06/07/2025 20:22

I’d leave it, he’ll find a way to contact you if he wants to.

outerspacepotato · 06/07/2025 20:22

He left it casual, see ya round. Match that.

Don't add him on social media. If he didn't put his deets in your phone or ask for yours, or set up a date, he's not that interested.

BebeFitterLoco · 06/07/2025 20:30

Okay, I'll leave then. If he wants to contact me he will.

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