My partner smokes weed every day and always has done since I met him 7 years ago. I didn’t care at first but lately when he wakes up in the morning or comes back from work (basically has an extended period of time without smoking) he is so snappy, has a horrible vibe and starts arguments over nothing. These little arguments over split milk turn into something huge with him flying off the handle, shouting and insulting me.
Before I had my daughter I used to back down just to save the argument but now I don’t so it does turn into something bigger because I just cannot allow him to speak to me like that and I’ve got to stand up for myself.
The problem is afterwards, (after he’s smoked) he always just tries to change the subject and go back to normal without any form of apology and when I mention anything he always blames me for the argument and will never ever admit that he’s wrong.
It makes me start questioning if actually did start it but I know deep down I didn’t.
Have you ever dealt with a person like this? If so how do you deal with it? I have told him to leave but he refuses and I can’t leave as I am a sahm.