I have recently left my partner and moved out from my home that I was living with my partner and my 2 children due to him being controlling, ive been in my house 3 months now and much happier , I did how ever give him a second chance to see how things go in seprate houses but he's got one massive problem that opposite my house and up the road a bit is a boy who he knows and more or less every night they're out there drinking I don't bother with them I might say hiya that's about it but my brother also goes over there most nights now my partner don't like this and there's nothing I can do about it but he's now telling me that if my brother gets drunk and upset and wants to come over and talk to me I have to tell him he's not aloud if it's after 9pm while the kids are in bed , but i have told him I am not going to do that if my brother needs to get stuff off his chest drunk or not I'm not going to push him away! But my partner is going mental saying if I don't tell him then he will tell him and thats going to cause one big argument , has he got any right to tell me what to do now we are in seprate houses and am I doing the right thing by not pushing my brother away? , my brother is more or less an alcoholic and has epilepsy adhd he needs someone to talk to or his head will get messed up he suffers from depression also.