I need some advice please, I've been with my partner for 15 years and right now we're going through alot of changes, I'm working two jobs (sen teaching assistant and retail) because he is self employed and his work isn't doing so good atm, I am so exhausted from it all and looking after the kids, we've argued so much about house work. He's only just started washing up, he doesn't do laundry or other chores apart from tidy the living room, we have 3 kids. We have sex maybe twice a week right now. If I'm tired he will make sarcastic comments like I told you it won't happen then say I'm overreacting when I get mad at that. Tonight I fell asleep around 9pm and he said he would wake me up in around an hour when the kids are asleep for some us time(sex) he tried to wake me but I was so tired I didn't wake up so he purposefully was loud and said I knew it wouldn't happen, I shouldn't get my hopes up so then I feel shitty and it makes me mad I just don't understand the comments. Am I overreacting or not? Helppp