I have 13 yr old son and i know what it is like to be a single mom and your child does not have regular visit nor even communication even if i want my son to connect his dad. So me , I am pushing my partner to have a video calls everyday make an alarm everyday so wont forget to call his 5 yr old son .So he is a military and he visiting his son just right now to US for a month staying at his ex-wifes place just the 3 of them. And i am saying again I have no problem him seeing son spending time with his in fact I am the one making sure he is doing it...its just that concerning to mem, him staying too long at his ex wifes house as vacation this is the first time he left since we live together but when we were friends it was different but i was even doubting that time when he visits spend 3 weeks . My priority is to support my partner, Its just hard and concerning ..how does they play , go to park ding all things together ,happy family infront of their child etc ..I am trying and will do my best to not to entertain this thoughts but in my opinion its concerning .But I have to trust him and support him. When he comes back to me after a month would it be the same?Or I have just to prepare myself and what could possibly happen .What are your thoughts about this?