Me 24/F my partner M/27 live together and have a young baby. I’m currently on maternity leave, my partner works a full time job. He thinks it’s wrong that I am wanting him to do more around the house, I care for our baby and do all of the housework. Our yard is going out of control with weeds and hedges being overgrown and I want to have it sorted for next year when baby is old enough to play outside. Currently I have to ask my elderly parents to come and help maintain it as cannot rely on my partner and feel bad that they are always around trying to help me maintain the house. My partner can live in any mess and leaves things around everywhere, his clothes are thrown into his cupboards and I cannot distinguish what is clean or not. He says that he works and earns money therefore he basically doesn’t have to do anything. He never puts the trash out and it sorely relies on me. We often miss the trash days as I am too busy to leave baby to do it, therefore there is always rotting bags with maggots in outside bins. He never remembers to do anything and rarely does what I ask. He thinks this is acceptable because he works and I don’t currently even though I plan on going back. This always turns into an argument when I bring it up that he could help out on weekends as he always finds time to do his hobbies. What do I do about this?