Best friend ignoring me whenever she has a boyfriend

[Bitfeduptoday]

She’s in a new relationship and things moved very quickly because within a few months they moved in together. It takes her weeks to respond to my texts and then she acts like nothing has happened. She is a great friend, but not when she has a boyfriend. I have a partner and a toddler and I still make time to reply to people. Can anyone relate to this?

@Bitfeduptoday sorry to say this but shes not what I would accept a ‘best’ friend to act like..? Or is her bf trying to restrict her contacts with friends ?mmmm🤔

Growing up in our late teens/ early 20s I had a friend like that, any time she had a boyfriend no one heard from her, she didn’t come out with us and really distanced herself, but any time she was single she was all over us.

she is no longer a friend, bizarrely , we now have adult daughters the same age and her daughter does the exact same thing!

So you need to check out if this is down to her partner. It’s concerning they have moved in so quickly. I tend to give friends a bit of leeway in the first few months as being loved up can be pretty heady but after that it’s unacceptable. Friends should be friends regardless of what happening in their love life

I had a friend like this when I was a teenager. Bloody selfish. We are no longer in touch.

I've never liked the kind of woman who uses other women as a substitute for men.

You're just a "filler" for her. Until there's a man around.

I would leave her to it but when it fails and she then needs a shoulder i would be as evasive as she has been. I wasted over 30 years on a friendship with a woman like this and honestly was not worth it. She is not a real friend.

I would rather have no friends than a friend who treats me like this.

She's "in love" - it is a form of madness. When she comes down from the high she might be slightly more sane.

No excuse, you don't ditch your friends for any boy.