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Successful date (or so I thought) then nothing...

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Calininearia68 · 20/06/2025 22:29

I've been chatting to a guy for a couple of weeks online, he was really keen, more keen than me. He kept giving me compliments over my conversation and knowledge and saying we had things in common.
We met today and spent the afternoon together, walk, meal etc. I know (without sounding vain) that I looked great and was sparkly and natural. It was fun and conversation flowed. He was widowed only just over a year ago. At one point he told me the day was 9 out of 10.
I drove home (2 hours) and have heard NOTHING from him, not even checking if I got back OK.
I'm feeling a little bruised and wondering what I could gave possibly done wrong and also how rude of him to not check I got home. He's been online. No way would I message him first.
Thoughts?

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Calininearia68 · 20/06/2025 23:33

Silly me!! Jumping the gun! I've just received a message asking me if I had a good time today and telling me he certainty did and can we chat tomorrow.
Must stop overthinking!
Thanks everyone for your support. Mumsnet is great for anxious people like me :) x

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