Will try to make this as short as I can, looking for some advice, partner thinks he’s constantly in the right,
Currently in a 6 year relationship. No commitment, don’t live together but I do spend a lot of time at his place. He wanted me to move in but I don’t feel confident not having my own home as he is not offering any commitment. (He owns quite a lot of properly and his own business so think it’s down to hearing horror stories) He also has custody of his Son who doesn’t see his Mother. When I am at his house, he cooks generally, does the food shopping, I clean the house, do the laundry and wash up after all meals, parent his child who is really left to his own devices if it was down to his Dad. As soon as your back is turned he’s upto no good. He says that I don’t contribute enough to the relationship?! This absolutely infuriates me. He just cannot see that I feel I do more than my fair share for the situation we are in. I feel he is expecting me be a wife and Mother to him and his child for very little in return for me. Currently staying at my own place because I’ve simply had enough. We fall out constantly because of his lax attitude to parenting and the Son playing up. Makes constant excuses for his sons bad behaviour Partner is also a workaholic, Too add, he also is a dismissive avoident. Very emotionally unavailable and unable to communicate well in a relationship, good at gaslighting me into believing that I am the problem due to me constantly going off at him about Sons behaviour, or bringing up any issues we have. I think I already know the answer. But would appreciate other peoples views and input. The option I think is to just walk away. I’m fed up of having the same arguments over and over again. Wearing me down.