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Unsure where i stand with this girl?

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Loverboy2223 · 18/06/2025 11:23

So i sent a girl a dm on insta she followed me back and we started talking. We didn't really say much till she suggested i take her number and we chat on whatsapp. We did and without wasting time i asked her if we could meetup. She said we could meetup anytime. I then forgot about our plans but last weekend i messaged her when i found myself sleeping by my friend who doesn't stay far from her. We met up late at night and had a make out sess behind my bros house. We had a really chill vibe and i really liked her goofy personality. We were very touchy and made a lot of jokes. I walked her home and we kissed one last time. Later that night she did send me a message about her having hikkies on her neck lol but thats the last time we spoke. During the meetup we did discuss her sleeping over by me but plans aren't going to work since my parents aren't leaving anymore. I feel like sending her a message saying i wanna see her again but i also dont want to come of as desperate or something. I think i am very insecure and scared of getting hurt due to my last relationship. What do you guys think do i stand a chance and how should i ask her if she wants to chill again?

OP posts:
Loverboy2223 · 20/06/2025 16:18

Lol i asked her if we can meetup tomorrow and she said she'd let me know should i check up tomorrow or just wait until she replies and what do i do if she never gets back to me?

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vodkaredbullgirl · 20/06/2025 16:20

Wait and there's nothing much you can do if she doesn't reply. Don't be too pushy.

waitingforlifeonmars · 20/06/2025 18:24

Loverboy2223 · 20/06/2025 16:18

Lol i asked her if we can meetup tomorrow and she said she'd let me know should i check up tomorrow or just wait until she replies and what do i do if she never gets back to me?

I would wait and see if she gets back to you. Overall, ask yourself is communication between you started by both of you 50:50 or primarily by you? If it’s primarily by you, then she may not be into you, or she’s playing games. Either way, it’s a no. FYI, a maybe/I’ll see in the UK usually means no, not sure if it’s the same over there.

Ilovelurchers · 20/06/2025 18:29

If you have been making most of the running so far, probably best to leave it to her now so you don't seem to be pestering her. It's that balance isn't it - you want to show you are keen on her but don't want to seem like you are pushing or crowding her.

You sound thoughtful and polite actually. Good luck!

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