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Instagram follow of other woman

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Overthinker81 · 16/06/2025 20:40

Hi so seen some other posts about similar things and feelings just feel like I need to let off some steam as my head just can not clear right now . So my husband has algorithms on instagram I know he looks at half semi naked women it did slightly bother me but always put it down to just looking until seen one he actually follows I probably shouldn't of gone looking but did and now am comparing myself to who he is following even though this person lives other side of the world am comparing my body literally and then the crunch I looked further and waslike oh he's liked that post this post and one post he liked only other day specifically remember him wanting to have sex with me ( sorry for being explicit ) to which am even more upset and feel like am overreacting in one way and then am like no absolutely don't want him near me anytime soon looking at another woman that way then wanting sex with me his actual wife . Sorry for long thread I've never posted on here before ....

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OchreRaven · 16/06/2025 21:21

You need to talk to him. Don’t punish him for something you haven’t raised with him. All it will do is build resentment for both of you.

If following half naked instagram models is a boundary for you then that is fair. You need to tell him that. If he decides that this random woman on the internet is more important than disrespecting your feelings then this is a serious issue and you need to decide what the consequences of that would be.

Lostworlds · 16/06/2025 21:24

I agree with @OchreRaven this is something you need to speak to him about and explain how it’s making you feel. You’re building this up in your head and need to clear the air with him to make yourself feel better.

Please don’t compare yourself with anyone, explain your boundaries to him and why you have found this so upsetting.

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