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Partner keeps lying to me

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Mialite · 15/06/2025 14:35

I have been with my current partner for 4 years and he is always lying to me, not malicious lies but lies all the same, example, when he is at work, if he as been working with anyone I do not like with good reason, he will tell me hes not worked with them or not even seen them that day, , which I find out its a lie, i see emails he as sent to someone not looking but sometimes by mistake, he will say i dont even have there email address but its there in black and white,and many other lies like saying he as been somewere when he as been somewere else, makes out to people he as got this and that wheh he as not another lie, this kind of goes on and on and he is not a good liar so i always know, and when i confront him i get 2 answers, its all in your head, or i dont tell you because you go off on one. This is not the case, I do not go off on one because of what he does its because of the lies he keeps telling me, how can you trust a person like that, now i am beggining to think is it really my fault,

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AttilaTheMeerkat · 15/06/2025 14:53

Why are you together at all?.

What are you getting out of this relationship now?.

You need to be apart from him permanently. He will just continue to lie and or otherwise drag you down with him. The fact you’ve been with him for 4 years is an appalling and shows how low your boundaries are in relationships. Do not sink another 4 weeks, let alone 4 more years on him.

Meadowfinch · 15/06/2025 15:08

Why bother being together? You don't trust him, and he doesn't tell you the truth. Seems pointless to me.

NamechangeJunebaby · 15/06/2025 15:43

what industry does your DH work in? In mine, the fact that a spouse didn’t like another member of staff wouldn’t mean you can just not work with them. If you don’t trust him it might be time to leave, as this doesn’t sound at all healthy in a relationship.

LyndzB · 15/06/2025 15:47

How are you seeing his emails?

He sounds like he might lie because you don’t trust him and it’s easier. Of course he’s in the wrong but you don’t come out smelling of roses either.

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