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No more intimacy

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Anna8656 · 15/06/2025 09:45

Just need few opinions really. I've been with my gf ( same sex relationship) for 5 years now and suddenly she is not interested in sex anymore. I'm 37 she is 44 . We are both not super sexual to be honest but we really enjoyed having sex at the start up till maybe 1 year ago . I'm happy with some fun like once a week I'm not bothered with more as this is enough. She is not even asking me how I feel about it like the problem don't exist. When I ask she is like oh I'm burnt out at work ( work have been stressful for her recently) but I always thought work is work and private life is something else. The other thing is that because she is Muslim and I'm not suddenly it may be religious thing making her feel uncomfortable. This wasn't a problem for her for the past 20 years but not sure what's gotten into her. She just says I'm depressed at work and it affect me and that's it . She is the best partner really we still enjoy everything else and I feel like she is my most successful relationship ever. Will be shame to lose that but sex is also part of a relationship. Don't know what to do . If it is some religious thing or menopause I can't reverse that . Shall I stay in a relationship where all is perfect except sex. Shall I find a side hustle just for sex ( im not the type to do this really). Apart from that we really love each other

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