I have a bit of a dilemma and need to get it off my chest.
I’ve recently started seeing someone I had known for a while (we have some shared friends so sometimes saw each other). It’s early on and I’m a bit head over heels if I’m honest.
I have some baggage that might really change the way he sees me (I used to do sex work some years ago and I’m not proud of it). I don’t want to keep this from him for several reasons but I’m also freaking out about his reaction and potentially getting humiliated.
I’m not even sure if we will work out long term but I think he should know in case it is a deal breaker for him. We are quite different in many ways and he could probably find someone who is much more on his level but I do really like him and don’t want to ruin this.
I decided to just tell him today but now I’m freaking out and having second thoughts and I could do with some encouragement.