My partner has always wanted a baby and literally begged me for a one. I was worried about financial side as I have a mortgage, but he assured that there will be no issues especially as he earns like 5 times more than me.
I got pregnant and everything was great, we were planning our wedding. Couple of months later after the childbirth, everything has changed. He said he changed his mind and has no interest in family life and not interested in marriage neither.
He does pay some child maintenance which he calculated using online calculator (approx 200 pounds per week). I work full time, pay my mortgage, pay for kindergarten (I am in London, so prices are really crazy) and all other expenses related to a kid. I really struggle to meet my ends, work hard and in constant worry about finances. I asked him to cover a kindergarten fees but he refuses.
There is no help from his side as well with a baby. Everything is on me. I barely sleep at nights, very tired, literally have no rest. I have no relatives here to help.
At the same time, he is enjoying the bachelor lifestyle, goes travelling, stays in luxury hotels, multiple weekends getaways, going out with friends several times per week.
Is there anything I can do here? Just to clarify we are no longer together, live separately.