Anyone else got a “scary” sister

[Rootheroo]

One who goes from 0-100 in a second?
One who is incredibly impatient?
One who has had lots of falling outs with friends and colleagues in the last?
One who has little self restraint in arguments and will always actively try to hurt?

I do know that she’s in an unhappy marriage with an arsehole, but it’s quite exhausting knowing that any slight disagreement is going to end with her desperately pursuing an argument.

tell me I’m not alone?!

That sounds awful but my sister’s unhappiness manifests itself in a different way.

Sharp tongue, quick to take offence, always seeing dark shadows and basically just not very nice.

She is in what I suspect to be a pretty dire marriage so I think that feeds in to it

I did in our childhood. She is ND and my parents were terrified of her when we were children to the point that they pandered to her every whim. She made my childhood unpleasant and I now haven't seen her for upwards of 20 years.

I have 2 and I see them both very rarely (even though 1 lives just a 3 minute walk away). I've got no time for their nonsense and I refuse to be their verbal punchbag anymore.