One of my partner’s old friend’s has Asperger’s Syndrome. He is told by different agencies he must have a capable adult with him during meetings. His mother is in her 70s and has been going to the meetings. The last one I attended with his mother to meet social services. They seemed to be on their guard as they didn’t know who I was. I work in the sector and I will know if he has the wool pulled over his eyes.
Now his mother has said she won’t attend anymore and he expects me to come regularly. This was supposed to be a one off me attending so I could see if they were doing what they are supposed to be doing. I work full time and should be working in the day. This is all about an anti social behaviour dispute.
Social services can’t help with ASB and they have said so. Myself and others have told him to sell up and move but he digs his heals and keeps wasting his time engaging with these agencies who can’t and won’t help. The police and other agencies have said they won’t help. I haven’t got time to help him. I have family members who are unwell and need my help.
My partner has just lost his mother and needs me. I even told this guy this and to find someone else to attend the meeting but he still expects me as a back up.