A guy I matched with wanted to meet and basically spend the whole of Saturday and Sunday together. I felt this was too much for a first date and suggested we meet for a morning coffee. He kept talking about us going on to other places afterwards and again spoke about spending the Sunday together. I told him (truthfully) that I was meeting a friend, so I'd be happy to meet for a coffee on the Saturday.
Yesterday I met him as planned and we got on well. We'd spent 2 hours together and I'd told him I needed to get some shopping done, but he wanted us to go on somewhere else together. It was raining and we were in what was supposed to be his home town, so I didn't know what to suggest and he didn't suggest anything.
Nothing was said about a second date, but when I got home I messaged to say I'd be happy to meet again. He asked me where and when, but as where he actually lived was miles away from what he'd put on his profile, meeting after work would be problematic for me. I said that if nothing else I could meet him next Saturday, but asked him for ideas. No reply. I had a look at the map and suggested I could drive on to meet him today, after seeing my friend. A few more hours and still no reply. I said I wasn't sure what had gone wrong but that I was there if he wanted to tell me. No reply, so this evening I deleted his number.
Was I unreasonable in not wanting to spend almost my whole weekend with someone I'd only just met? Even though we got on, I had other plans and stuff to do at home. Before we met I'd told him I didn't want to become over-invested right at the start and wanted to take things slowly. He kept saying there was no pressure, but I felt like I was pressured quite a bit and then he just blanked me, presumably because I didn't want to do what he wanted. Was he just super keen on me and I didn't pick up on it or might have been displaying a red flag for being controlling/demanding?