Please can anyone help…
I don’t know where to start… Been with DP for the last 12 years on and off have 2 kids one being a baby. The last few years he hasn’t been able to stay in one weekend he goes out and doesn’t come back until the next day. This has become so normal. I know it’s not but it has just been the way we have been living .. I’ve not been able to understand why it is simply impossible for him to stay in once. Cut a long story short I’ve found out he’s addicted to cocaine which has become increasingly worse letting down family events, date nights etc not going in work etc. in a nutshell I’m done with the relationship I do not wish to be with a drug addict he wasn’t this way when I first met him I have never took drugs myself. We are on a joint tenancy with housing association and he just refuses to leave I’ve took his keys off his keyring and refused to let him in but he guilt
trips me into letting him back in sayinf he’s sorry he loves me he has a problem and wants to get help I end up worried about him because he looks so ill from all the drugs and let him in scared he’ll do something stupid sleeping in his car. What do I do how do I move on he isn’t getting help and it’s just getting worse I don’t want my kids or myself in this environment but also feel guilty turning my back on someone who’s blatantly unwell. He starts on a Friday after work and by Saturday morning I’ve kicked him out he goes back out and doesn’t come back until Sunday night looking like he’s at deaths door crying etc I don’t know what to do please help