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Do these texts indicate feelings for his ex ?

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Kenyaparks · 05/06/2025 17:17

Hey guys, so my close friend needs some help. Her and her boyfriend have been dating for 6 months. He has an ex that he dated in the past for a short period of time a while back. Anyways my friend had a gut feeling to check his phone, and she found these messages between the two of them…

Her- You on a bae vacation?

Him- I’m single
Her- since when
Him- yesterday
Her - lol
Him- well you wanted to know
Her- you’re right I don’t care.
Him- I’m kidding I’ve been single for some months
Her- don’t leave me on read
Him- took you a week to say that
Her - you miss me
Him- I should be asking you that question, it’s okay if you do I understand
Her-No I just be bored, you miss me though
Him —- nahh I don’t
Her- bring me some food
Him- you go get us some food

Those texts we’re from last week

she found these texts last night
Her-you do miss me
Him- nope
Her- that’s mean
Him- why would I miss someone who doesn’t miss me?
Her- so you do miss me
Him- nah you’d know if I did
Her- come on I know you still have a thing for me
Him- we’d be together if I did
Her- nah, ima let you have it though
Him- No ima let you have it
Her- whatever
Him- watch your mouth
Her- no you do
Him- stop before I put you in your place lol

although she’s the initiator, he still responds. When my friend confronted him on it he claimed that he only responded cause no feelings were there…. My friend is confused on the next steps that she should take? Yes she knows I posted on here asking for advice for her.

OP posts:
Never2many · 06/06/2025 16:01

You are being hugely unreasonable to publish someone else’s text messages, gained from your friend’s snooping on their phone on a public forum.

Whether he has feelings for this woman is entirely irrelevant. She’s snooping through his phone and giving you his texts to publish here?

You’re entirely in the wrong for doing so.

And your friend needs to grow up.

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