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Caught bf trying to meet w someone else

11 replies

Mumbrain2 · 02/06/2025 19:01

Hi ladies, I'm currently 6 months pregnant and yesterday I caught my boyfriend trying to meet up w another woman. They was messaging each other on social media, he told her he was single &she suggested they meet up &he said "yeah of course I really do want to see you" then told her she was 'perfect' then said he would like to get to know her as well because she is 'girlfriend material'. I am honestly so so hurt by all of this I cant believe what I was reading. He has messaged girls before (and yes I took him back like a idiot) but he had never said any of those things before. I honestly dont know what to do. How can someone who's meant to love you do this and while your carrying their child. So betrayed. Any advice would be welcome :)

OP posts:
notimeforregrets · 02/06/2025 19:02

Prepare to be a single mother (mentally, financially and in any practical way you can) because he's not gonna stick around. Im sorry thi happened to you.

DustlandFairytaleBeginning · 02/06/2025 19:03

I'm sorry. I think you already know this relationship is over though OP. Start working out how to go it alone with the baby however you can. This will only get worse and you know it.

Poopeepoopee · 02/06/2025 19:04

Didn't you post this exact same thread about 2 weeks ago?

PullTheBricksDown · 02/06/2025 19:04

What they said, I'm afraid. Do you live with him? If so is it his place or yours, or joint?

smallsilvercloud · 02/06/2025 19:08

I wouldn’t give another chance, sorry, I know it’s difficult right now but would be even worse down the line when your child is used to having him around and then you discover again he’s up to no good, like a ticking time bomb men like this don’t change.

Mumbrain2 · 02/06/2025 19:09

PullTheBricksDown · 02/06/2025 19:04

What they said, I'm afraid. Do you live with him? If so is it his place or yours, or joint?

It's my place. We was talking about getting a house together, im glad we didnt go through with that idea now.

OP posts:
Mumbrain2 · 02/06/2025 19:10

smallsilvercloud · 02/06/2025 19:08

I wouldn’t give another chance, sorry, I know it’s difficult right now but would be even worse down the line when your child is used to having him around and then you discover again he’s up to no good, like a ticking time bomb men like this don’t change.

I know, your so right. I see now that hes never going to change

OP posts:
Mumbrain2 · 02/06/2025 19:11

DustlandFairytaleBeginning · 02/06/2025 19:03

I'm sorry. I think you already know this relationship is over though OP. Start working out how to go it alone with the baby however you can. This will only get worse and you know it.

I know. Your right, it's gonna be hard aswell since im pregnant with his child, but your right.

OP posts:
Mumbrain2 · 02/06/2025 19:11

notimeforregrets · 02/06/2025 19:02

Prepare to be a single mother (mentally, financially and in any practical way you can) because he's not gonna stick around. Im sorry thi happened to you.

I am. I'm preparing to be a single mum right now because I cant forgive him again.

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S0j0urn4r · 03/06/2025 17:16

He needs to leave.
Get legal advice re parenting and child support.
If you can take a photo of the messages.

Copperoliverbear · 03/06/2025 18:11

if You live together throw him out, he is a serial cheater, I’m afraid to say he will do it again.
let him see the baby supervised by someone until the child is older, presuming he wants to be involved.
please don’t stay for the child you will be wasting your life and as far as we know you only get one life.

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