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Relationship problems

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tiredmummm · 02/06/2025 12:19

me and my partner split up for a year.
he moved out and we lived separately.
in that time I started talking to someone for a couple of months but I never met him in person.
my ex ( now partner again) he did actually meet someone and he hadn’t admitted it but I know he slept with that person.
now we got back together last December and he has been asking me for all the details including the conversations I had with the guy I was speaking to.
I told him majority of the things I’ve done as I felt pressured to but he keeps asking me to go into detail etc.
as far as I’m concerned I was single so was he I don’t think I need to explain myself to him, I haven’t asked about what he’s done because I’m simply not interested as he was also single.
when I tell him that I won’t be going into anymore details and that I want to leave this in the past he gets angry at me and quite aggressive and says that I’m willing to lie to him instead of just telling him.
im I in the wrong or is he? I just don’t know anymore.

OP posts:
GeorgeMichaelsCat · 02/06/2025 16:23

He's very much in the wrong. As you said, you were separated and your life was your own to live how you chose to. Is he normally this possessive?

Hardgum · 02/06/2025 16:25

This is circling the drain op

shouldn’t have got back together

Hardgum · 02/06/2025 16:27

I am hoping your user name is misleading

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