Just in case anyone remembers my thread last year. I don’t know how to link to it I am sorry.
i divorced my husband of 30 plus years after ten years or more of a relationship without any physical or emotional connection, including his separate holidays (10 a year including his weekends away etc). I put up with this for ages, and then I met another man. I’m not proud that I had An affair.
im not going to sugarcoat it, the process of divorce was awful. He did not make it particularly easy. My adult kids weren’t happy and it took a while for them to come round to the idea. I lost half a stone, my hair started falling out and I didn’t sleep. I looked like the living dead last summer.
But now it’s finally over. I am divorced as of the end of April. I am still with my (I don’t know what to call him, boyfriend? Partner?) two days ago the cat and I moved into a little house by the sea. I cannot tell you how happy I am. My kids have come round to the idea, they still see their dad but not often as he’s usually away cycling.
just an update! Thank you to everyone who responded to my original thread. You don’t know how you helped. To change a life.