How do you get used to this? Married years, 2 kids one primary one high. Half terms etc DH doesn't book time off. I work evenings so I do most of the stuff with the kids to keep them occupied. If we all go out for a walk at the weekends 9 times out of 10 my husband walks miles ahead. It's just depressing. I mention it and after a while and he stops but then goes back to doing it. I've only got my mum and if we go see her he sits on his phone.
His family live miles away and they never message me or anything. Sometimes he goes to visit them without me as I can't get the time off. Lots of things he doesn't want to go to.
I know people will say leave, etc but I can't afford it. It's just depressing and really lonely. He has friends at work. I've realised I've got hardly any friends anymore.
Just come to the seaside for the day and everywhere I look are families where as it's me and my two kids like I'm a single parent. It's depressing.
If I try and say I'm lonely etc he will say we spend time together, we chat etc
. We literally just have a few 5 minute conversations when he gets home. On my nights off from work after I've put the kids to bed half the time he will go and exercise as he can't do it during the day.
Also I've had a health scare and he's really not interested.