Just need to vent really and see if I'm being unreasonable! Not to drip feed my DH is generally great- a good dad, provider and takes responsibility for basically everything in the house in terms of sorting finances, DIY, holidays, admin etc (by his own choice). I work part time and do the vast majority of looking after our 5 year old DS.
I have dysphraxia which I think DS has inherited and this seems to irritate my perfectionist DH but to be fair he isn't too critical of DS. He is a bit of a control freak and good at whatever he turns his hand too and cannot understand other people struggling.
I do tend to struggle with my dysphraxia with things that others might find easy and he pick holes in whatever I do. If I even stack the dishwasher incorrectly I get a nagging session from DH (so most days). If I clean he will find something out of place even though I am pretty thorough. I've bit back numerous times asking what he hopes to achieve and I admit I'm not perfect as I do snap back a lot of the time but don't know how to handle this. What made me write this thread was yesterday I was in a and e with my son most of the day. He picked us up and when we got back complained that I had hung the bedding up incorrectly and it would have dried completely if I had done it correct...as you can imagine after a long day in a and e I was fuming