My girlfriend always wants money...

[Cybermutant]

I would like to thank everyone who responded. In short, I have this situation: I met a girl about 3 months ago. She is very beautiful. But she wants money. She constantly wants me to give her gold jewelry and expensive brand-name clothes. My affairs are gradually going backwards. I have less and less money for my own needs. Soon I will probably have nothing left. Are all men like this? Do you give money to women to keep them? I don't know what to do anymore. Please, help!

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You know what to do....

Oh FFS - she's just using you, dump her before you get further into debt.

Well she may be physically beautiful but she doesn't sound like a beautiful person. She sounds mercenary and greedy.

If you know what she is like why are you still with her? You are basically buying her.

I'm sure there are plenty of other women out there who would want you for yourself and not for your money.

She’s a freeloader but you know that.

Anyone male or female or asked for money and/or gifts is waving massive red flags right in your face.

She will scam every penny she can from you and once you start saying no, she’ll be off to the next victim.

Dump her grabby arse and find your self respect.

Have you actually met her or is this all online?

TwistedWonder we had sex. It is not online.

OP, it's 2025 now. You don't need to give her any money at all. Women are allowed into the workplace, allowed an education. Would you expect her to buy you lovely things, jewellery, clothing? There is equality now amongst the sexes. So, no, don't buy her anything else. She can leave you. And then you can be free to meet somebody with morals.

She’s still a scamming feed loader who is rinsing you.
Find some self respect and stop being taken for mug by this scrounger

If this is real, you know she’s just using you. Dump her before you’re bankrupt. She will certainly dump you when you have no money left, so why wait till then?

Is this your first relationship?
No, this isn't normal.
She is using you for money etc.
When the money runs out you won't see her for dust.
Dump her now.

Well I don't think she's with you for your brains...

There’s a word for women who want money in exchange for sex……

What I can do? Stay without girlfriend? I haven’t any alternatives.

It is possible to survive and have a richly fulfilling life even without a girlfriend!

If she only stays with you because you send her money and give gifts, you don't have a girlfriend now....

That's not a relationship, certainly not from her perspective...

I want money too… so I GO TO WORK 🙄🙄🙄

you can’t be this desperate!!!!

Lol ok, you can't be this gullible or stupid

JFC this can’t be real surely?

You don't have a girlfriend. You have a longterm arrangement with a prostitute.

Cool story bro

Stop seeing her. You’re being used.

How old is this guy really. If he's old enough to be joining mumsnet he should have the sense to be having that freeloading little cow out of his life. If she wants nice things she can go out and work for it

Over sharing. Use your common sense.

Yeah definitely not all men do this to “keep a woman”. Being treated now and again is nice don’t get me wrong, but it shouldn’t be the reason she’s with you. When I met my partner he was pretty broke tbh, but he’s the most wonderful man I’ve ever met, so he didn’t need to constantly be paying or buying things for me to ‘keep me’. He’s much better off financially nowadays, but I still wouldn’t want him spending money on me constantly.

Find someone who wants you for you, not your money.