Ex wants to stay friends but he's moved on and I'm severely depressed

[Alicew00]

I've been really suicidal since thursday/friday when i found out my ex was seeing someone else. I broke it off when i caught him sexting other women 6 months ago. Yet he still wants to be friends because he doesn't have many and neither do i. He talked to me on friday night til i fell asleep as he was worried about me. I'm feeling better now after my sister said i need to move and get a fresh start. My house is in a bad state and the area is awful. So that's what I'm going to do. I just cant figure out if i should be friends with him. He's the only person who bothers to keep checking im ok.

I've blocked him 😬 it needs to be done. He was making me feel worse. I just blocked without saying anything on whatsapp where he usually texts. He tried ringing me this morning but i ignored it.
Need to keep ignoring now. Let him wonder lol.

Good for you!! You can block him on your phone as well so you don't receive texts anymore.

I've put bleach on one of his tshirts he left and gave to me and I've cut it up a bit as well. Might leave it outside his house on the fence

Don't OP. Just move on with your life.

Okay

💐

He sounds sick
Hes keeping you hanging around just in case.

Go no contact with him. Block him and delete his number. Not having many friends doesn't mean you should be friends with a sicko.
You can make new friends.

OP you cannot be friends until you no longer love him. He's not thinking of your welfare in wanting to be "friends" - I strongly believe he wants to keep you dangling for sex/money/his ego.

If he genuinely cared anything about you he wouldn't be using you like this.

Please, please tell him to Fuck Off and block all forms of communication.

You can and will recover from this - if you maintain zero contact and give it time - a year seems to be the usual grieving period.

I never want to speak to him again. Ever. It feels like he discarded me so I'll do the same 😔

Do so. He's a grown man and can fend for himself. You concentrate on yourself and YOUR wellbeing.
Think of it as recovering after a serious illness - take time, be gentle with yourself, eat well (little but often if you have no appetite), no alcohol, lose yourself in something as often as possible (books, gardening, embroidery, drawing for example).

I wish you a future of complete indifference to his existence!

Thank you 💓