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Insecurities affecting relationship

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juizo · 19/05/2025 15:10

So I just got into my first ever relationship. I was always super insecure growing up, and still am. I feel like this is affecting my relationships and need help on how to fix this. I constantly feel like my girl is cheating on me, even though I have no reason to think this. And when she mentions any other dude she's friends with, it fills me with rage. Another thing I do is make up scenarios in my head which make me feel anger and sadness as well. I just feel like I'm easily replaced which is why I think these things. We started dating only a few months ago, but I feel like if I keep getting in my head like this, it wont last much longer. Which I don't want to be the cause because I really like her. How do i overcome these thoughts and insecurities?

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Fluffypotatoe123987 · 19/05/2025 17:10

One thing is download gpt helps you process things amazing. Second of all I've just dealt with this as well my ex bf was the same. Men do not marry their first love you have so much to learn. 3rdly everyone is replaceable enjoy the time you have together in the here and now and if it continues great if it falls apart u move on. Enjoy the here and now and stop worrying about things that may or may not happen

S0j0urn4r · 19/05/2025 17:46

Get some therapy to overcome your anger and control issues.

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