Partner of almost a year is showing more and more controlling ways due to their insecurities. Almost every day a comment is made to me how he doesn’t trust me or women in general (due to past relationships) not down to me. And when he doesn’t get to see me he will randomly start an argument to which then blames me for cause he’s not happy so basically I need to be un happy too. Nothing like this if we are together only when we aren’t. It’s getting really draining now? It’s just not normal behaviour, I do snap back because I have never been in this situation before and I say to him you are coming across abusive, like for an example he got upset over something at the weekend turned it on me and then said I need to make him happy, I said this isn’t normal behaviour and he said so your not going to try and make it better? Anyone been in this situation, I am a very strong minded person and very head on so I don’t just accept it when he saids it I have to have my say too, there is other things also, that there isn’t many men that would want me cause I have a child from a previous relationship and basically I’m lucky! I’ve never in my life come across behaviour like this especially in a relationship and I’m just looking for some advise?