Hey, I have a question nonjudgmental please I’m in a relationship with a guy that I have been in for the last nine years. I know that is a long time, however when I met him, the woman he had been with for 21 years married for seven of the 21 years and has five kids plus a stepdaughter that he helped praise. She had passed away six months before we got together and he had lost his son 30 days after she passed.
my question is should I continue to hang on and relationship his family kids, etc. do not like me because they think I was his wife’s friend and we were messing around prior to her passing away. That was not to be the case at all. His kids are still expect him to participate in stuff that they do for their mom anniversary of her passing birthday he has started another life with me still not forgetting his grandkids or his deceased wife. My question is should I continue to hold onto this situation? No one hasn’t gotten any better. I’m not being selfish at all because I understand to be very beginning. Everybody was a little and still as heartbroken and that’s understandable but nine years later they’re still acting weird towards me of course I’m gonna do what I wanna do no matter what the advice is. Just curious though should I am I wasting my time or shall I continue to hold on or should I move on my life and find somebody that’s really gonna love me not saying he doesn’t but the continually of bringing her up at the 10 years or so it’s getting to be a bit much.