My partner and I split up for three months. I was fed up with his drinking and being a twat on alcohol sometimes. We don't live together. He pursued me relentlessly until I agreed to go back. I was doing fine. He promised to cut back on his evening drinking. First he said he was just sticking to beer as he is fine on beer. Bacardi is his spirit. He has started back to his usual drinking again after four weeks. I told him under no circumstances to start any rows with me on drink. He has been ok even though he drinks bacardi again and we have had some nice days out. Ive just got mixed emotions about the relationship. I actually quite liked being on my own with my dog and 20 year old son. I care about him but I feel nothing has really changed even though we are back together. If I tell him I want to be on my own again he won't take no for an answer. I think he feels he is fine as he is and cant aee an issue with it. He didn't stick to what he said he would do and thinks it's ok that he didn't. Have I a valid point here?! I have a drink twice a week. I'm not teetotal. I'm just a bit dillusioned.