Hi I have not been getting on with my husband for a while he put his hobbies first and will go most nights after work come home at 9pm turn round on his phone then go a bed. I’m a stay at home mum to two autistic daughters . When my husband comes in after work he doesn’t even acknowledge the kids I actually have to tell him to say hello to them . He lays in bed next to me on his phone his always so miserable and depressing and it’s not just me his like this with if we go to anyone’s house he just sits there on his phone and huffs and puffs . His terrroble with money and we are in a lot of debt . Recently found out he had an only fans account and sent picture of his thing to random women . I want to leave but I’m so scared of being a single mum with two autistic children they are really hard work, to be fair I feel like a single mum anyway as husband never here, but I’m still so scared . I don’t live near family and don’t drive but am going to learn. Feel like I got no confidence at all I’m so scared . All we do is argue we don’t have sex maybe once every 3 months his all for his friends talks to them so nice talks to me like shit tells me to fuck off constantly when I ask to talk about us . I feel so lonely in this marriage anyway but feel like if I leave I have let the kids down feel so trapped . Sorry don’t know what I’m hoping for here but feel so down . I rent and my daughters recently just got in a special school so don’t know how this will effect all that :(