Secret dr’s appt

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DH had a secret doctors appt this afternoon. Secret as in he told me last minute, and wouldn’t say what it’s about. I feel REALLY uncomfortable. Concerned about him/ worried why he won’t say. I know he has the right to privacy and it shouldn’t bother me. But it does. Am I being ridiculous?

My DH gets secretive and coy when he gets piles. He's a really bloke bloke too.

Odd that he told you about the appointment but not what it is for.

piles? thrush? erectile dysfunction? a spot on his member? herpes? Something else related to his nether regions

It'll be one of them. Wait for him to tell you.

How old is he ? He shouldn’t have said he’s got an appointment if he’s going to be secretive about why ? Does he like you to worry ? Is he wanting attention ?

Why did he even tell you then? Bonkers...
Imo ignore him. He wants you either worried or grateful when he inevitably tells you he is fine.
Leave him to it..

I am more pissed off now. He’s being shitty about the fact I am upset. Apparently telling me about it is sufficient. I have no idea why he told me. He had every opportunity to go without telling me which is what is stranger.

anyway, I will stop caring.

You're not being ridiculous OP - I'd be upset by this too.

I'm guessing if he told you had an appointment but not what for it's probably something he finds embarrassing, see piles or prostate exam

It’s a bit dense that he’s told you about the appointment but then won’t go any further, but he is also allowed to see a dr and not have to tell you everything if he doesn’t want to. Particularly if it’s a limbo situation of waiting to find out the results of something.

I’d be doing an eye roll about the first bit but I don’t think it’s something to legitimately get upset about.