Still love exDP but am supposed to have moved on

[StupidFool]

That's it really.

I still love him.

I am in a new relationship, we are having a baby in a few months. My new partner is lovely, loving, excited about the baby, adores me, is a wonderful guy. I do love him too.

But exDP will always be the man I love. Our relationship was very rocky - drink and depression and immaturity - but he's changed now and seems to have all the good bits and none of the bad bits.

Rose tinted glasses? Pregnancy hormones?

Who wants to give me a slap and tell me to be happy with the lovely relationship I have and stop hankering after the past?

Not recently. As we were breaking up there was a lot of swinging this way and that - one of us would declare undying, etc, the other would back off - then the next time it would be vice versa - that went on for years.

Irisheyes do you mean shortly after you got married you were miserable?