Want a new dp

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I'm so bored and fed up with dp.
He would watch football 24/7 if only they'd broadcast it through the night.
He patronises me.
He doesn't love me any more.
I want a new man!!!!!! I am growing old with this one.

Hi ChicPea

I wish he would post on DadsNet and slag me off -honest to God - it would be good for him. I know it would make uncomfortable reading but I wouldn't care right now.

Re: the boss. No he doesn't know - well he knows I have a slight twinkle in my eye. We are friends. He has two kids. Nothing will ever happen. Damn.

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Luna - moving to be with him must have made it a hell of a lot worse for you. Do you go to awful mother and baby group-type things to meet the locals?

I know that relationships are never easy but I think sometimes you just know in your heart of hearts that yours has run its course.

Will read your thread.

Rickman - three kids!!!!!!!

You star.

Why did you leave?

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Rickman - good for you. I can't imagine dealing with two children, let alone four. Lots of love and luck to you all x

OMG makealist. How awful. Are you going to stay?

Hi Makealist, I'm in a similar postition I want us to split up but my DP is dragging his heels, I'm hoping we can slug it out today.
We've been together almost 16 years, and I feel really guilty cos now our kids are at an age when it will do most damage, although the constant arguing can't be doing them much good, but I also feel really bad, cos I keep wondering why I can't hang on if i've managed for 16 years.
Sorry to hijack the thread, i think a lot of us feel the same.

well been reading the post on here and I feel very too I don't kno what to do, if I'm in the same boat as you lot or not I'm very confused. Always arguing with each other a lot of the time he pisses me off. Enjoy spending my time without him a lot of the time then i can get on with the stuff that I want to do. (selfish or what) But what has disgusted me is the other night he was going for a couple down the pub with a friend, when I phoned him up he turned out to be in some sleazy lap-dance place, it has made me feel sick that I am with some pervy sleaze. can I have some opinions on this thanx. Haven't spoke to him since. I do dream of living in my own little place with the kids and no P but I am very scared og being on my own but at the same time I am soooooo lonely being with this person. Are we ever gonna get this sorted or is it just gonna drag on???? great now im crying.

I have said about leaving before but when it comes to the crunch I find it very hard....where would I start????? also i feel as if my kids will miss out on things because of money and I don't want that. Just means I'll be unhappy forever.

well we had a chat last night not sure it sorted anything just came to lots of shouting. As things like that normally do. I don't know.....maybe I don't know what being happy is be nice if I knew what I wanted out of life

think today has now been better. we have had a chat and we maybe be going to counselling but we'll see and no I wouldn't want a replacement either if we did split as couldn't be bothered with another. would also like space with the kids. But we may be on the way to happiness yet anything can happen....yes?

think i was having a very bad day yesterday so sorry to have started on my moaning on here. A lot of the problems are to do with me too/ so not all one sided.