Name change for this one.
My partner spends quite a bit of time on his hobbies (around 4 - 5 hours during the week and sometimes 4 - 5 hours at the weekend). If I were to book something, he would obviously prioritise this over his hobbies but otherwise it's pretty set in stone throughout the week. The dilemma I face is we have a young DD and I get a bit overwhelmed sometimes. He suggests that I also make time for hobbies but in doing so I would be sacrificing family time together. Like for instance, there could be one Saturday or Sunday where he's out for a few hours doing his hobby but the following day he hasn't got any plans. He would happily take DD out somewhere for a few hours so I get equal alone time/hobby time but of course I sacrifice our time together. At the moment I'm.not sure what to do. I'm mostly resentful of the fact he gets so much time to himself but then I'm.not taking up the offer to do the same am I? Also I should add his hobby takes up more time during the summer.. during the winter he's often free during the weekends except for when he occasionally goes out with friends.
Any advice welcome 🙏