I've been dating a man for about 2 and a half months. He's a real petrolhead and owns several vehicles - cars and bikes. At the moment he's quite busy doing work on them but he's selling some of them but he would still have a few vehicles. Like me he's said he's looking for something long term. We're both late thirties, no kids.
I do want someone who wants to live a fairly normal life though, having a relationship and eventually moving in. I know it's early days but for example if you end up trying to move in with someone with lots of vehicles it could be an issue for practical reasons. He currently has a storage place to store some of them. I also wonder if I am overthinking and if its best to wait to see how things go once he has sold some of the vehicles and they become less of a focus. He definitely knows the vehicle obsession had got out of hand because that's why he's trying to sell some of them.