Is this relationship worth it

[Teetee6000]

Hey everyone, so I’ve got a partner of 12 year he has micro cheated in the past (messaged other girls behind my back never been physical with them) he has a thing for Snapchat my absolute hated app! He lies to me saying he doesn’t have it but then I found out he does have it adds all these good looking girls on it, he compliments them and messages them behind my back he sends sexual messages to them he’s never complimented me in 12 year, he hides he’s phone a lot and then when I found out he had Snapchat he said he would deactivate it and then he got it back behind my back to talk to these girls again but because I’ve found out everything he’s told me I’m over reacting and he wants to put it behind us. I’ve told him how bad about my self this makes me feel and how I don’t feel enough anymore but it’s like my feelings don’t matter. He’s had many of chances in this relationship but it seems like he just enjoys hurting me and taking me for an idiot

Dump him and never look back

Definitely get rid, you can do so much better. Once a cheat always a cheat.

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Definitely, 100% not worth it. Not even worth discussing

No such thing as ‘micro cheating’ - he’s a cheat and a liar so stop wasting your life on this prick

Of course it’s not worth it and if you thought it was you wouldn’t be asking here. He’s a piece of shit. Dump, run and never look back.

Why are you still there, OP? Just get yourself away from him and get rid. Am not sure why you are even on here asking a question. You need to raise your standards dramatically. He's lied to you about other women, so its over! Go and live a happy life.🌺

No it's not worth it, it never was, HE is not worthy of YOU, get rid and leave him to Snapchat his life away.

He’s a scum bag. Run!!

He’s not a ‘micro’ cheat he’s a cheat and tbh I think you’ve just discovered the tip of the iceberg. Seriously, get rid and save your sanity.

12 years is WAY too long!

I’m going to go against what everyone is saying as I don’t think you will leave him over this so pointless telling you too but what I will say is now download Snapchat and add lots of men and start talking to them, sexually if you like (what’s good for the goose and all that) don’t hide your phone like he is and even do it in front of you, obviously he isn’t going to like it but that is the norm for your relationship now (caused by him) he has shown you this is how he wants your relationship to be so he will need to get used to you doing it too. Tbh I would usually be like the others and say leave him you deserve so much better, and you really do, but like I said I doubt you’ll leave him so adjust your way of thinking and enjoy yourself xx

I thought you were going to say he has a micro penis, not sure what micro cheating is. Regardless of penis size you should end it if you're not happy.

No it's most definitely not wroth it but I doubt you'll leave

I don’t see an issue and you should continue the relationship.

Said no one ever.

😂😂

But yes this will destroy your self esteem for good if you stay with him. Make a plan, get support and get rid

LTB ASAP.
HTH

Hey everyone, so I’ve got a partner of 12 year he has micro cheated...
That's as far as I got into your post before I had an answer for you: nope. Not worth it.

Get rid.

Why would you stay with a man who could (and probably is) putting your sexual health at risk?