Hi, I am married but I and my partner kind of share a house and share child care, she won't chuck me out as the children need a father and I can't move out because I like the children and it costs a lot to move into some bedsit and be more miserable than I am. Anyway the other day I spotted some ACICLOVIR , it had been left out , dosage five times a day , it has a number of uses the most obvious being general herpes. Now I have not had sex with her for a few years, after I found out about a long term affair our relationship took a nose dive . My issue is I don't know if I should leave her to it , or ask her what's going on and is she kind of OK, she must be stressed over it , I don't know what to make of it, people of our age should not be putting ourselves in that position it's sad , anyway leave her to deal with ot or try and discuss it as adults?