I was raped by an old friend who kept blackmailing me. He told my husband that we were having an affair but we categorically wasn't. This happened over a year ago and my husband has recently said that he doesn't believe me and that I have no proof of the "accusations" that I made. I am absolutely heartbroken. I have never given him a reason not to believe me. I blamed myself for what happened as I felt as though I was weak. Therapy and time has helped me to deal with this and now I don't know what to feel anymore. I feel as though nothing that I say will change how he feels and I just don't know what to do anymore.