Bf of 2 years and I had plans this weekend and he cancelled very last minute.
His parent (who doesn't live with him but is currently staying with him for a few weeks is unwell). I've no reason to doubt this, I'm in touch with the parent and other relatives, so I know the health condition is genuine. However, the condition isn't so grave that the parent couldn't be left "home alone" whilst bf does his own thing or goes out.
I suppose I'm just really disappointed that the weekend plans were cancelled so last minute, and this involved letting my DC down, as well as another couple (who we had planned to meet and do a mutual hobby with). Not only that, but my DC (aged 7) was left very disappointed because they love it when bf visits. They get on well and always have done.
Bf lives a couple of hours drive away from us. We usually meet every couple of weeks. Both busy with careers, and I with my DC too. The arrangement has always suited us and worked well.
Bf messaged as usual this morning to say good morning, but no contact since then. We usually message a lot throughout the day, especially at weekends when we're both off work and my DC is with their dad. I've deliberately stayed off line since early this morning, hoping this might trigger some kind of "hi, are you ok?" message or call from him, but nothing.
I've been messed around in previous relationships and really want to give this one the benefit of the doubt. We've been together 2 years, so don't want to throw my toys out of the pram over this.
Not really sure what I'm asking on here... maybe just looking for validation that it's normal for me to feel hurt.