Am I wrong

[shanavine]

Myself And my partner want to buy a house together.
I want to pay for half and Does she.
I have 1 grown up child and she has 2 kids in the early 20s.
My partner feels I'm not treating her 2 equally by not letting all 3 inherit evenly.
I want my child to inherit my financial input in to the house.
Her ex husband is wealthy and her 2 will probably inherit a lot from him.
Mine has a small inheritance from her mum.
So I'm trying to safeguard that.
Am I wrong?

Put your half in trust for your dd.

Of course you want your child to inherit your half. Her two evenly inherit her half. Why would you give her DC part of your share? This is entirely normal.

Doesn't this put you off her? She sounds incredibly grabby and argumentative.

You own half and that half goes to your child when you die

She owns half and her half goes to her kids when she dies

That is fair. Why should your kid miss out to two people they have no relationship with

If you own half a house each then you hand down your own half to your own kid/s. She's trying to profit from you!

Where did you get this from

It does matter if they are supporting his child and grandchild now